Rename Demolish to Deconstruct; add build button grid icons

Rename the Demolish* terminology to Deconstruct* across the simulation,
events, UI, tests, and docs (DemolishCommand and the DemolishMode* events
become their Deconstruct* equivalents), aligning with the deconstruction
queue at HEAD.

Add per-building SVG icons for the build button grid (REQ-UI-BUILD-GRID):
one color-chip icon per placeable building under data/icons/buildings,
loaded from disk at runtime and rendered with QtSvg onto each build button.
An unaffordable building's button shows a grey-recolored variant via a
QIcon Disabled-mode pixmap (REQ-UI-BUILD-DISABLED). Adds the Qt5::Svg
dependency and deploys Qt5Svg.dll.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01Y7N59FsLA5e2kuVdqe4Uhc

bin/app/data/icons/buildings/deconstruct.svg

@@ -0,0 +1,6 @@
+<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" viewBox="0 0 100 100" width="100" height="100">
+  <rect width="100" height="100" rx="22" fill="#cc3333"/>
+  <g transform="translate(13,13) scale(2.3125)" fill="none" stroke="#ffffff" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round">
+    <path d="M7 10h18"/><path d="M9.5 10 11 26h10l1.5-16"/><path d="M13 10V6.5h6V10"/><path d="M13.5 14v8M18.5 14v8"/>
+  </g>
+</svg>